Guide to Parenting and Divorce

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This guide focuses on helping children feel secure during divorce by prioritising routine, reducing conflict and keeping communication calm and clear. It also shares practical tools for co-parenting and ways to support children emotionally.

Table of Contents

PRIORITISE STABILITY

Divorce affects children differently depending on age, personality, and circumstances. This guide offers practical strategies to support your children emotionally and maintain stability. Here’s how:

  1. Maintain routines
  2. Communicate clearly
  3. Avoid unnecessary disruption

MANAGING CONFLICT

Conflict harms children more than separation. Avoid:

  1. Arguments in front of children
  2. Using children as messengers
  3. Speaking negatively about the other parent

PRACTICAL TOOLS

  1. Shared calendars
  2. Clear communication channels
  3. Agreed routines
  4. Predictable handovers

SUPPORTING CHILDREN EMOTIONALLY

  1. Listen
  2. Reassure
  3. Validate feelings
  4. Seek professional support if needed

KEY QUESTIONS

  1. What routine feels stable for my children?
  2. What conflict can I reduce?
  3. What do my children need most right now?

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